The blended orgasm has been called the “holy grail of orgasms”. Ignoring the religious connotation, the implication here is:
- The pursuit of it is beneficial
- The payoff is worth it
- It is a journey, so enjoy it every step of the way
If you are familiar with your clitoris, and the orgasms it can produce, you know that external clitoral stimulation is usually the shortest route to an orgasm. That’s great for when you need to get off and get going, but if you have some time to spare, and a willing partner (or a toy designed specifically to aid you in this quest), discovering what a blended orgasm feels like could very well be life-changing. That was certainly the case for our Founder & CEO, Lora Haddock.
What is a Blended Orgasm?
A blended orgasm occurs when you achieve simultaneous vaginal and clitoral orgasms. But here’s a really important tip—thrusting away at your vagina isn’t going to get you there.
The vaginal canal itself has very few nerve endings, which is a blessing. Could you imagine pushing an 8 pound human out of a 3 centimeter wide channel that was chock-full of nerve endings? NOPE. However, your clitoris has over 8,000 nerve endings, and some of those can be stimulated internally through your vaginal wall.
Getting to Know Your G-Spot
Located approximately 2 inches inside the vagina, on the anterior wall, the G-spot is a small patch of erectile tissue and most importantly, nerves. This network of nerves and tissue is all part of your CUV, and the clitoris—in its entirety—is the key to it all. It can take some time to locate your target, and once you’ve found it, you’ll need to spend some more time learning what kind of pressure and stimulation feels best. Keep at it, and you could very well experience a new type of orgasm. Once you’ve found it, here are more detailed instructions about how to properly pleasure the G-spot.
A Winning Combination
Once you have mastered your G-spot, or at least become well acquainted, it’s time to put all the pieces together. The G-spot orgasm occurs as a result of prolonged stimulation of the area. Pay attention to the sensations as they increase in intensity. Before your arousal peaks, add stimulation to your external clitoral glans. If you are using a toy or your fingers, you will achieve optimal results if your clitoris is wet, so this is no time to shy away from lube. Apply consistent and rhythmic strokes to your G-spot, while utilizing your favorite technique on your clitoris. You will know when you hit the jackpot.
What Does a Blended Orgasm Feel Like?
Reports and adjectives vary, but everyone we’ve surveyed has one thing in common; they say it’s the most intense orgasm they’ve ever had. While clitoral orgasms tend to be fairly localized to the pelvic region, G-spot orgasms are characterized by a generalized sensation in your core and abdomen. Put the two together, and you can experience a full-bodied joy-ride.